If Guruji (or God) comes and tells you, "I am going to bless you with a 'Siddhi' (a power) which will enable you to, either overcome your dislikes or go beyond (be free from) your likes. Choose one"; what will you choose?
If you are wise you will choose the latter! Surprised!?
Just give it a deeper thought. Whenever you dont like something, it is because of something you like. Eg.: If you dont like people who use foul language, it is because you like soft spoken and polite people. If dont like messy rooms, it is because you like things to be neat and tidy.
It is not always possible to change a situation or person or run away from a situation or person. So the way of the wise is transceding the likes, dropping the likes; and the dislikes are taken care of automatically, because the foundation of every dislike is a like.
Taking the dislikes in your stride is ACCEPTANCE,
dropping the likes is realising that OPPOSITE VALUES ARE COMPLEMENTARY and
dropping the tendency of harbouring likes and dislikes is SURRENDER.
Isn't it awesome? Did you like it?
Love & Jai Gurudev
PS: Any doubts, querries, thoughts...pl feel free to share